“36th story”
First published: April.26.2018
A story by Laleh Chini:
There was a very kind old lady helping my mother during our childhood by babysitting us.
She was very skinny with a long face full of deep wrinkles. You could easily get a sense that she had an extremely painful life.
We loved her and respected her a lot. My mother was very kind and generous to her as much as she possibly could. We called her “Nane Ali.”
She had her own beliefs. For instance, she never liked to take a picture or be in family photos. We really wanted to have a photo to remember her forever but she always refused.
Years passed and we grew up. One day I and my sister decided to pay a visit to Nane Ali.
Nane Ali got very excited and hugged us. We talked about all her kindness and how honored we were to have her growing up, and how she was always like a grandmother to us.
She felt very pleased and blissful.
My sister asked her: “Nane Ali, how come you never let us take a picture with you? We would love to have a picture with you please.”
This time she didn’t refuse our request; she stood between us and we took some pictures together and some of her only.
Then she said: “The reason that I never took any pictures in my life was that I believed that I would be cursed and die the day after they take a picture of me.
We laughed and said: “Oh dear Nane these thoughts are nonsense, superstitious and just silly extravagant talks.”
She smiled and didn’t argue. We said our goodbyes and finished that wonderful day with a big hug.
The next day they informed us that Nane Ali passed away!
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That’s sad 😔
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It really was, maybe we should have respected her beliefs!😐
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Oh my! That’s kinda spooky.
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It made of wondering too!!!!!!!!
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Oh no!! Is like she knew it would happen and when she finally allowed her photograph to be taken was when she was absolutely ready to go.
Thank you for sharing Laleh. I always look forward to your stories.
💟💟💖
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Thanks my dear for reading. I think she really was tired of staying alive and wanted to go.
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She may have passed but she will always be living in loving memories. Thank for a beautiful story.🌺
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Thanks dear for reading 😍
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Oh no it is sad but thank God you and your sister saw her before she passed away. When someone grew up with extravagant it’s impossible to change their beliefs.
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Yes we’re so happy that we saw her and have pictures of her.
Love u❤️
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I’m glad she got to see you one last time 😊
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We’re grateful as well. Thanks dear 😍
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Poor woman.. You mean she was right after all?
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At least she stood up to her beliefs. It’s really hard to say. Thanks dear for reading and commenting 😍
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That’s sad 😔 she passed away…
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Thanks dear for reading 😍
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Oh no! You should have respected her belief: she believed on that for sure. So sad..
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That’s what makes us sad. We really didn’t know her reason and she told us after talking the pictures. Thanks for commenting dear ❤️
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An amazing story. God Rest Her Soul.
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Thanks my dear friend ❤️🙏
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Our memories of childhood are often magical. Your “Nane Ali” must have been such a treasure to your family. I’ve heard that our own Native Americans would not have photographs taken because they feared their souls would be imprisoned in them. Sometimes beliefs are so deeply embedded in a person that they become their reality, perhaps that was true of Nane Ali. The mind is a very powerful part of us. Sorry that your good intentions apparently went awry. Thank-you for this sad, yet sweetly touching story.
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Dear Ellen thanks for sharing that beautiful native Americans beliefs about taking pictures, it was so interesting. Appreciate your kindness for reading and commenting ❤️
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I am delighted that I was able to give something to you! Your stories and pictures are always such lovely gifts to me. Again, Thank-you!
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You really are a sweetheart with a wonderful blog❤️
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It sounds like she was ready to go.
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I guess she wanted to die😔thanks dear ❤️
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The good thing is that she had your love and presences over the years. Nothing is ever truly lost in the Universe…❤
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I certainly hope so ❤️
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Hope is a powerful force. 🌹
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Thanks for comforting my dear friend ❤️
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My pleasure.
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Nane Ali no longer feared death. Her time had come to die and she was ready.
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You are right we felt that. Thanks sweetheart ❤️
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Because of age she probably was ready to die. She may have been holding out until she had the joy of seeing you. If the picture had been taken while she was young – that would be a different matter.
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You are right, at least she had fulfilled life. Thanks dear ❤️
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Reblogged this on Die Erste Eslarner Zeitung – Aus und über Eslarn, sowie die bayerisch-tschechische Region!.
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Thanks dear Michael ❤️
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❤️ My pleasure, Laleh! I always have to thank you for great stories, an a lot of motivation. Michael
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So sweet of you ❤️
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❤️❤️❤️
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Its really sad, Laleh! But thank you for telling this story. It show there is much more between heaven and earth we sometimes think, and you had a wonderful person for your first steps into life. Michael
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We really had, she was wonderful ❤️thanks Michael 🙏
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It’s a touching story with an unexpected ending. Loving and sad at the same time. Thank you Laleh 🥀
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Thanks Isabelle dearest ❤️
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The same. Thank you Laleh for another beautiful story ❤️
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This is sad but I understand superstitions. My real nana’s neighbor that lived behind her home was like a second grandmother to me. Rita was hispanic and catholic and had a lot of superstitions like covering mirrors and burning candles all day and night to keep prayers answered. She didn’t seem upset about photos though but the last photo we took together, she would die a few months later. When we see photos of people knowing they were their last photos ever taken, it makes those photos a little more special. Rita did not believe in vanity though and according to most Native Americans, photos are not allowed because it in a way it is like stealing one’s soul. The more and more selfies that are taken, the less and less we are who we were meant to be, instead we become the selfie. Great story and beautiful shots, thank you for sharing. Your Nane Ali was a beautiful person.
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My dear thanks for sharing your story with us, beautiful ❤️
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That is a really beautiful story, and a lovely childhood memory 😘
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Thanks a lot dear Charlie. Your comments means a million ❤️
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a lovely tribute to your nanny and the aged 🙂
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Thanks so much for your follow my dear ❤️
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and for yours, I visited Iran twice in the seventies and loved it so nice to hear your voice 🙂
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Uhhhh, it’s so amazing to hear that. Iranian had great days in seventies. 😍
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yes I really enjoyed it!
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A wonderful, poignant,
and thought provoking story.
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Thanks David dear for reading 😍
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Nice BLOG!!!
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Thanks dear ❤️
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Reblogged this on Have We Had Help? and commented:
More from Laleh 😉
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Thanks sweet Jack.❤️
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😉 ❤
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I believe she knew she was going and wanted you to be able to see her forever.
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Absolutely, thanks sweetheart ❤️
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A poignant story. I am glad you managed to see Nane Ali. I have no idea what happened to the lady who looked after me when I was little. 😦
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Yea we got lucky. Even though you couldn’t see her again but they are always in our memories with or without pictures.😍thanks darling ❤️
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Lovely story! You guys will see her again when Jesus Christ comes again! God bless you sweet Laleh 🙂
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I believe we would see each other for sure ❤️thanks sweetheart 😍
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Goodness! I guess it was her time…
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It was her time for sure and she knew it. Thanks dear ❤️
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That’s creepy!
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I know. Thanks dear ❤️
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Reblogged this on Viv Drewa – The Owl Lady.
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Thanks so much dear ❤️
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A beautiful story Laleh, I could feel your love, and you touch my heart.
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Uhhh my dear Ivor, you’re very kind 😍
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😊 😊 ❤️
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Reblogged this on lampmagician.
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Thanks sweetheart 😍
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Thanks back my dear ❤❤
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Your beautifully illustrated story makes me think with love of being at with my 91 year old mother. With my brothers and one sister two years ago, she faded from her time on earth with us after giving her many children life and everything else she had to give. She was so tired and ready to let go. Her mind had stopped remembering and working properly for the last 5 years or so, but she was brave and full of child like faith. And she kept everyone laughing until the last week. She decided quietly that she would not eat and wanted to rest from the world. I remember being able to whisper to her thank you, thank you as she passed and I am so very happy I had the chance to tell her. I had to travel for 30 hours by plane to be with the family, but she I was able to say goodbye. Thank you Laleh for sharing your story which celebrates the beauty and mystery of the guardian angels in our lives.
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My dear friend I am happy that you had chance to see her again, God bless her soul.
Thanks a lot for sharing your beautiful story with me.❤️
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Amazing, is it a coincidence? And how did you feel? This old age in the pictures is moving.
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Thanks sweetheart, we felt so sad. These are not her pictures. Just random pictures that I could use legally.😍
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Beautiful old age.
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I feel our beliefs are who we are. What is true for me, may not be true for you. Tis very deep. Wonderful sharing, thank you.
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Yes and we must respect each other’s beliefs. Thanks my dear friend ❤️
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Hey Laleh! The story is amazing and quite petrifying as well. I mean, I am startled to read this. I imagine how would have you felt after this. May her soul rest in peace.
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Thanks so much sweetheart 😍
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The pleasure is all mine!😊💕
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Oh wow. Quite a story.
I know a lot of people get weird about taking their photos.
She must have been at peace though. She had a purpose to fill, but now she was ready to go, so she allowed you to take a photo. It’s nice you have something to remember her by.
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And not just remembering her, but believing her superstition. thanks dear 😍
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OMG, Laleh joon, I just shrieked by reading the end of the story. But yet, maybe she found her final peace in believing her believe.
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Azizam ❤️ yes I do believe so. Thank you 😍
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It can happen. Maybe Nane Ali knew her time had come. 🙂
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I’ve heard people feel when it’s time to go. Thanks dear 😍
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‘Welcome. 🙂
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Thanks for sharing Nane Ali’s story… such a beautiful way for your love for her to live on. ❤
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Thank you dear for following back.
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Wow. This really proves that we are our thoughts. She believed so wholeheartedly that this would come true, and it did. Amazing story.
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Beautiful sentence dear”we are our thoughts “ so true😍
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Dit is een toeval maar gelukkig hebben jullie haar nog gezien en getoond dat ze voor jullie heel dierbaar was
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For sure it was a coincidence and yes we were so lucky to see her one last time. Thanks dear for reading and commenting ❤️
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That’s awesome my dear Kristen❤️
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I love all the pictures of hands!
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Thanks dear Janet, for your kindness ❤️
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This story is so moving! I am happy for you that you got to meet her one last time though 🙂
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That was a great memory dear Neha, Thanks so much for reading my posts and commenting.<3
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it was a pleasure to read it 🙂
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Means a lot dear ❤️
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Thanks for the kind words.
As I view it, what you are doing is equally impressive.
I recommend that my followers follow you as well.
I believe that there is a calling for authors, bloggers, and artists to provide a more sincere channel of communication through writing.
Keep it going. I know how challenging it is to write every day, but we do it with good intent and passion. That makes it joyous.
I am always touched when my sweet messages like this reach someone. Sincere thanks. What a good positive writing that can motivate one this morning.
Happy Sunday
Enjoy
Warm regards, Patrick
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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Thanks Patrick dear that was very sweet of you.<3
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Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtful response.
Such an awesome way of replying someone. Thanks. Again
As always your posts are incredible and I enjoying reading every word down till the last line. I must say that you are probably one of the excellent bloggers on WordPress that write inspired
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Thanks for accepting and following my blog.
I’m available to read your post at my convenient time.
You have such an interesting topic I will love to read in
your blog.
I still remain the simple blogger…..
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my pleasure and thank you.<3
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Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtful response.
Such an awesome way of replying someone. Thanks. Again
As always your posts are incredible and I enjoying reading every word down till the last line. I must say that you are probably one of the excellent bloggers on WordPress that write inspired
Writing/post
Also, I just posted: OSCILLATION
Would love to know your views. Love to see your contributions on it. I’m always excited for your comment. 🙂
You are welcome
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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You are more than kind Patrick dear. Always read your posts with pleasure my friend ❤️
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You will loved one I did on OSCILLATION. You gonna love the story well. Very good one.
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I read it. Still thinking 🤔 😂 very unique and deep.
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Take you time and read again . see the structural review on it.
And tell me your own views about it. OK Mrs chini
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OK…I will love to see it
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Thanks for the reading up
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Enjoyed it ❤️
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OK…o with be glad for that. Don’t rush it. Take your time and read deep meaning in to it and say your comment on it OK Mrs chini
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I appreciate that very much.
It shows your concern for such post.
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I still remain the simple blogger…..
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Congratulations ❤️
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Thanks dear for nominating me dear friend appreciate it❤️
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You are so welcome!! I don’t often get to say enough wonderful things about your blog posts, so I want you to know I read them and I think you are wonderful.
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Awww you’re so kind, thank you ❤️
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Wow !
Is so good she waited all that time.
Thank you Laleh .
♥️♥️
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Thanks dear Crissy for reading. Appreciate your time.<3<3<3
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Keep safe sweet Laleh 💜
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You too sweetheart.❤️
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You did not know any better then..
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Thanks dear for reading, appreciate your comment.
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God bless
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the soul
a window
taken a pic
and click
gone
like the mosque
is Jesus
land
they scream
no solution today
do not say His name
here
why not
of course so!
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Thank you John, very beautiful.
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Superstition, indeed.
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Thanks for reading Michael.🌺🙏
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ENJOY THEIR COMPANY WHILE YOU CAN!
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Thanks so much Jonathan.❤️
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MOST WELCOME ARE YOU! ❤
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🙏❤️🌺
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YOWZA, YOWZA-! ❤
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