A Real Loser|بازنده واقعی

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“44th story”

First published: June.21.2018

 

Adam was 18 when his aunt found out that her husband was having an affair with his secretary.

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The secretary got pregnant and her husband wanted to marry her.  Adam’s aunt tried for years but couldn’t get pregnant. She knew one day her husband would leave her because he wanted his own child.

Adam’s aunt divorced her husband at the age of 46.

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To fulfill her loneliness and get rid of the sadness, she started drawing and painting classes to learn what she always said, was her passion.

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Her drawings were so embarrassing and if no one knew, they would think a little kindergartner drew them. To Adam, she was a real loser and he was very ashamed of her. Adam thought:  “she was 46, she should work harder and think of her retirement, not waste her time on painting and making a fool of herself.”

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Adam’s father was one year older than his aunt. Adam’s father never did these crazy silly things; he just worked and worked very hard. He was always very focused.

Years passed and Adam became 40 years old, he was living in another country, educated, and having a good life. One day when Adam called home, his sister picked up the phone. She said Mom went to visit aunt’s painting gallery. Adam’s sister was there staying with Dad.

“Aunt’s gallery?!” Adam asked.

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His sister said: “Yes, she’s a famous painter. She had several successful art shows so far and sold many of her paintings. She even teaches drawing and painting.”

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Adam remembered the day that he thought his aunt was a loser and his father wasn’t. Now Adam could see how healthy and happy his aunt was and his father with almost the same age is a tired retired man who only solves puzzles, drinks tea, and goes for walks thinking about his old days, but Adam’s aunt built a happy and successful retirement.

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Adam’s aunt thought Adam how not to be a loser; to follow his dreams and never be embarrassed about something that you’re passionate about.

 

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186 comments ›

  1. joyroses13
    June 21, 2018 • 12:36 pm

    Cheers to your Aunt! That’s great that she kept pursuing her passion and didn’t give up, a great role model!

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  2. momlifewithchiari
    June 21, 2018 • 12:37 pm

    Incredible, resilience! 😊🙏🏽

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  3. calmkate
    June 21, 2018 • 12:56 pm

    Great lesson and wise aunty, thanks for sharing your story and your passion 🙂

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  4. DutchIl
    June 21, 2018 • 1:06 pm

    Thank for sharing… perhaps the divorce were the best thing that happened with your Aunt… 🙂 just follow your dreams…. 🙂

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  5. DutchIl
    June 21, 2018 • 1:08 pm

    Sorry ignore the video… it was Keep a Dream in your pocket by the Seekers… 🙂

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  6. efge63
    June 21, 2018 • 1:16 pm

    “When you reach an obstacle, turn it into an opportunity. You have the choice. You can overcome and be a winner, or you can allow it to overcome you and be a loser. The choice is yours and yours alone. Refuse to throw in the towel. Go that extra mile that failures refuse to travel. It is far better to be exhausted from success than to be rested from failure.” —

    Mary Kay Ash

    PS. I love you and your stories!!!!

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  7. Mr. Mel
    June 21, 2018 • 1:38 pm

    The father was on a journey the aunt was on a quest. Life come to those who choose to live it. Wonderful story, thank you for sharing.🙏

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  8. hassanmosleh
    June 21, 2018 • 1:39 pm

    Remarkable story thank you laleh of course if we want to have a good future we have to pursue our passion

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  9. journie2woman
    June 21, 2018 • 1:41 pm

    It may take years to learn a lesson but the point is that you actually learn. Thanks for the wisdom

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  11. Kranti
    June 21, 2018 • 2:42 pm

    Remarkable journey of your Aunt! Certainly Our obstacles always push us to be better! Follow your dream to make them reality! Definitely a great lesson to learn! Sending lots of love and positive vibes to you and your Aunt! 😊💛

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  12. Ellen
    June 21, 2018 • 2:48 pm

    I think that the moral of this story could be…do what you love and love what you do. When my children were in high school and began thinking about what they wanted to do next, this was the advice that I offered. It had worked for me! Thank-you!

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  13. mylilplace
    June 21, 2018 • 2:53 pm

    Whoa, thanks for this inspiring story. Yes, we just have to keep plodding on and do what we love and what we believe in. Thanks for sharing this message with us!

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  14. Jim
    June 21, 2018 • 2:59 pm

    that is one smart lady. 🙂

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  15. pvcann
    June 21, 2018 • 3:02 pm

    What a beautiful story on every level.

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  16. simplywendi
    June 21, 2018 • 3:07 pm

    love, love this story……….so happy your aunt lived her authentic self……..if we could all be so lucky.

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  17. kethuprofumo
    June 21, 2018 • 3:56 pm

    Thanks for an encouraging story, dear Laleh! Indeed life is too short to live somebody’s dream! 🙂

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  18. padmajaramesh
    June 21, 2018 • 4:57 pm

    Very nice in experiencing success of a lady 😇🤗

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  19. padmajaramesh
    June 21, 2018 • 4:59 pm

    Very nice successful experience of a lady
    Kudos 👏👏💐

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  20. padmajaramesh
    June 21, 2018 • 5:01 pm

    Laleh chini, do you know Hindi?
    Don’t mistake me because you are from Iran and I admire at you for learning an Indian language.

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  21. Rosaliene Bacchus
    June 21, 2018 • 5:10 pm

    Starting over later in life is not easy, especially after a divorce. While we take baby steps moving forward, others may laugh at our efforts behind our backs. With persistence in pursuing our goals and belief in our dream, we can and do succeed.

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  22. Candice
    June 21, 2018 • 5:42 pm

    Loved this story. Thanks for sharing.🙂

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  23. mainepaperpusher
    June 21, 2018 • 6:01 pm

    I love this story and it’s a true testament to your aunt’s determination to follow a path of happiness rather than anything else. I only wish your father could find something to be passionate about in his retirement.

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  25. myexpressionofthoughtsblog
    June 21, 2018 • 8:02 pm

    Beautiful story !! Never underestimate yourself!! Aunty is humble and didn’t stopped believing herself

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  26. Bette A. Stevens
    June 21, 2018 • 8:21 pm

    A wonderful success story, with lessons for us all! 🙂

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  29. Julie Peters
    June 21, 2018 • 9:38 pm

    Love, love , love! Thanks for sharing!

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  30. NaomYb’
    June 21, 2018 • 11:48 pm

    Happy for her – as she could find real happiness !

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  31. anne leueen
    June 22, 2018 • 1:26 am

    It is best to follow our dreams. I always say I do not want to be in the elders home and saying:” I wish I had….” or ” I could have but…..” I often remind myself …if not now then when? Nice story in this post. Thank you.

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  32. Warren Richards
    June 22, 2018 • 2:46 am

    A wonderful story, of how never to give up; on yourself! 😊

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  33. Johnzelle
    June 22, 2018 • 3:13 am

    I enjoy reading your stories so much!

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  35. Crissy
    June 22, 2018 • 10:25 am

    And yet another wonderful story!💜
    Take care Laleh.

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  36. myplaidheart
    June 22, 2018 • 12:33 pm

    Great story. When we are children, we have boldness and courage to try new things. When we are adults, we become afraid for some reason. A good lesson for us all.

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  37. maskeddisguise
    June 22, 2018 • 4:15 pm

    Such a beautiful and inspiring piece.

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  39. Lynn
    June 22, 2018 • 10:57 pm

    Everyone has the potential to flourish but for some of us it may take time to bloom! Go Auntie.

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  40. Phyllis Rogers
    June 23, 2018 • 12:33 am

    Often those we think are “less than” us teach us the most. I’m proud for your aunt and the lesson you learned about fulfilling your natural purpose.

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  41. WhyToStop
    June 23, 2018 • 3:03 am

    That’s really a sweet story… a big hug to your aunt for pursuing what she liked without a conscience of being perfect… thanks for sharing that beautiful story..😊😊😊

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  42. wellcolourmeyellow
    June 23, 2018 • 10:10 am

    This has got to be one of your best posts, you really outdid yourself, good job!! ❤

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  43. Christopher Lindsay
    June 23, 2018 • 6:44 pm

    Inspiring story! We can make something beautiful after tragic loss.

    But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
    I have spread my dreams under your feet;
    Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.

    –W. B. Yeats

    minor edits:
    “always said [remove comma], was”
    “A friend once said[,]
    The secretary got pregnant and [my uncle] wanted to marry her.

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  44. dreamslover3
    June 24, 2018 • 4:35 am

    great lesson I want to be like your awesome Aunt never to give up no matter what. Thank you for sharing it with us

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  45. floatinggold
    June 24, 2018 • 7:07 pm

    Inspiring and thought provoking. A wonderful story.

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  46. 🌴🌺🇹🇹🌊Tammy7711🌴🌺🇹🇹🌊
    June 27, 2018 • 3:31 am

    Wow, touching story, your Aunt is blessed by God and I love that she never give up despite the odds! ❤ beautiful! I'll love to see some of her art pieces!

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  47. anuskhalovestruck15
    June 27, 2018 • 7:12 am

    Very beautiful and inspirational story…thank you for sharing.♡♡

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  48. natuurfreak
    June 28, 2018 • 11:06 pm

    Following your dreams is the best way to be happy

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  50. Middle Aged Momma
    July 2, 2018 • 1:17 pm

    It sounds like she followed her passion, dreams can come true!

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  51. OIKOS™-Redaktion
    July 2, 2018 • 10:12 pm

    Thank you for a really motivation story, Laleh! Michael

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  52. Paul Handover
    July 4, 2018 • 7:21 pm

    What an incredible story that clearly inspired you later on in life. Anyway, called by to leave my thanks for your recent decision to follow Learning from Dogs. Thank you!!

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  53. Professor Taboo
    July 4, 2018 • 11:29 pm

    Goodness! So much profound truth and “human nature” woven throughout this story Laleh. I read it TWICE just to lick-it all up again! Hahahaha! 😛

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  54. reocochran
    July 7, 2018 • 1:28 pm

    It is always special to have art, music or writing talent since it not only fills your own soul but blesses others with its beauty! What a wonderful and special story to read, Laleh.
    You are such a blessing, lifting other’s spirits high! 🌟 💖

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  55. Rageshree
    July 8, 2018 • 10:22 am

    Such an inspiring story…. We should never ashamed of who we are and our passion in life❤️ Love your aunt’s journey to success even at that age💐 Love and hugs!💕

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  56. itsmylife126
    July 11, 2018 • 4:09 am

    That’s an excellent story

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  57. inhiscare753
    July 18, 2018 • 2:50 am

    What a great and abstract turn of events. Two wonderful success stories. Your Aunt pressed through the hurt, pursuing her passion painting with resilience, leading to success 💜.
    Your Dad has worked and accomplished retirement, he sounds like s man who loves and provides for his family. He seems to be enjoying his walks, relaxing, reflecting. ❤️
    💕Beautiful Family

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  58. www.tourismobserver.com
    July 20, 2018 • 2:11 am

    Reblogged this on Tourism Observer.

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  59. www.tourismobserver.com
    July 20, 2018 • 2:15 am

    Never judge a book by its cover..

    Thank you for sharing.

    Paul

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  60. Livinia Ren
    July 22, 2018 • 6:30 pm

    Such a lovely story, because in the end she was empowered

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  61. ellie894
    October 13, 2018 • 9:47 pm

    Oh Laleh! I love this! Makes me want to pick up my brushes 🎨

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  62. Jonathan Caswell
    December 9, 2018 • 12:34 am

    Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
    REALLY NICE YOUNG LADY—AND WE–MY WIFE AND I—NEVER COULD HAVE CHILDREN. LIFE PROVIDES O[PPORTUNITY IN THE MIDST OF SUFFERING!

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  63. The Devotional Guy™
    December 9, 2018 • 11:08 pm

    Thanks for sharing this enlightening post. Very inspiring.

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  64. utahan15
    September 28, 2020 • 8:10 am

    the snake shed it s skin
    molt
    so too the uncle
    so sad
    when persons
    are passed over and around
    like a possession
    slave to sex and the flesh
    the ultimate test
    do wrong
    and mean sorry
    so ha there you go!

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  65. harishharplani02
    September 28, 2020 • 8:18 am

    थी जाग्रत थी उसकी तम्मना
    पकड़े सफलता वही
    जाग्रत इंसान ही चढ़ता सीढी
    पाता सफलता वही।।

    बहुत सुंदर कहानी
    बहुत अच्छी लगी।।

    She was awake
    Holding success the same
    A waking person rises up stairs
    He gets success only.

    Very beautiful story
    I liked it

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  66. harishharplani02
    September 28, 2020 • 8:24 am

    She was awake
    Holding success the same
    A waking person rises up stairs
    He gets success only.

    Very beautiful story
    I liked it

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  67. forresting365
    September 28, 2020 • 11:55 am

    You just gifted a huge smile! Thank You, Laleh!!! 🤗❤️😊

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  68. www.corneliaweber-photography.com
    September 28, 2020 • 10:38 pm

    The aunt had followed her guts, how to process her suffering by painting, and for Adam he learned a lesson of not judging

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